Mindful eating

I have been experimenting with eating mindfully since I read Susan Albers’ book Eating Mindfully. This is a wonderful book that has lots of wisdom inside and can function as a reminder to eat in a conscious and mindful way.

I have been breaking some bad habits since I’ve started eating mindfully, and the first steps that I took was to…

  • eat without distractions. No phone, no TV, no music, no computer or iPad as well as no thinking about other stuff while eating.

Only me and the food. 

It is important to take attention to what we are eating because otherwise the brain doesn’t register how much we have eaten and we can appear to be hungry after we’d eaten a huge meal! This is the reason why people overeat in dark places, while driving or doing something else. Some research has shown that the foods don’t get properly digested and we don’t get the right amount of nourishment from the foods we eat if we don’t pay attention to the process of eating. This is important, so I have decided for a change!

Boy has it been difficult to break the bad habits! My personal story is like of many of us: growing up eating everything in front of the TV. My evening meals were eaten in the dark (!) in front of the TV, and it was just the norm in my family. To take the first steps and eat – even a small snack – without distractions has definitely NOT felt normal to me! I felt nervous and felt like running away from the experience. I felt like I would waste so much time if the only thing I had to do while eating was to eat. How scary is that!! :)))

So after “torturing” myself by eating without distractions I took the second step to…

  • notice the look, smell, taste and sound of the food. You may think it’s easy, but it requires attention and focus. It’s way too easy to start thinking about anything on earth but food while eating. Writing a mental to-do list, thinking about future events and problems.

The third step that I’ve taken to become a mindful eater was to…

  • look for the Last Bite Threshold. As described in The Intuitive Eating Workbook by Tribole & Resch: “It’s a point at which the body gives the cue that you are at a comfortable fullness level. At this point, you will find that satisfaction in what you are eating will begin to diminish”. So I have been looking for cues and the biggest one has been that the food wouldn’t smell that well anymore.

After taking these three steps I have surprised myself with this important insight!

I don’t want to eat food that I don’t like. This may sounds crazy to you: “Why would she even eat foods she doesn’t like?” But here is the explanation. Because I don’t want to waste my time I want to get “value for the time spent eating”, so I choose only the foods that I’m really attracted to. As a result, it has been easier to say “No” to the foods and snacks that I would previously eat just as a complement to other tasks that I was doing. 

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The concept of pleasure

I recently came across a TED talk about pleasure. In this talk a woman described her battle with herself trying to achieve the perfect weight. She restricted her calorie intake, she wore herself out during long painful workouts and she hated herself.

She was fighting in a war against her own body. She hated the process of achieving her goal, and when she finally got to her perfect weight, she didn’t feel happy at all.

What was wrong?

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Nye veje til den naturlige sult

Er du en af dem, der ønsker at finde din egen sult at kende, men har problemer med at mærke dig selv og din mave, kan du gå en anden vej end den, som jeg foreslog i mit indlæg Lær din sult at kende.

Den vej kalder man en rehabilitering, hvor i stedet for at gå hele vejen og bruge alle kræfter på at lytte til dig selv og dine reaktioner, laver du en plan for din spisning.

Der er nogle regler, som er nemme at følge, men som vil give dig en mulighed for at føle sult og mæthed bedre end nogensinde.

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Lær din sult at kende

En af grundstenene i intuitiv spisning er at kunne mærke og respektere ens sult. Den naturlige sult signalerer, at mavesækken er tom og blodsukkeret er lavt, og at der kunne være dejligt at få spist noget.

Selvom vi ved det, er der mange af os, der enten spiser, når sulten er for lille eller trækker tiden for langt, så sulten bliver for stor. Ved at ignorere det risikerer vi, at vi bliver for tykke eller for tynde og mister forbindelsen til vores krop.

Hvad ødelægger vores forhold til den naturlige sult?

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Intuitiv spisning

Intuitiv spisning har faktisk ikke så meget til fælles med intuition, bortset fra at man lytter til sit indre. 

Intuitiv spisning handler meget mere om respekt. Respekt for ens krop og de behov, som kroppen har eller ikke har. Det vigtigste er at respektere, at ens krop har brug for noget.

Det kan være behovet for at spise mere – og det kan være behovet for at stoppe med at spise. 

Når du er en intuitiv spiser, lytter du til dine krops beskeder: om du er sulten, hvilken smag du vil opleve og hvordan vil kroppen synes om eftersmagen. En ting, som en intuitiv spiser værdsætter, er at kunne have en så god forbindelse med sin krop, at man får ro i kroppen. Denne ro er meget vigtig, både hormonelt og psykologisk. 

Hvordan opnår man denne ro i kroppen og hvordan bliver nan en intuitiv spiser?

Først og fremmest, giver du dig selv pauser. Disse pauser bruger du til at lytte efter, hvordan din mave har det, og om du er sulten. De giver dig også mulighed for at tænke over, hvilken type mad eller hvilken smag du er efter lige nu. 

De pauser, som jeg nævner, kommer ikke af sig selv. Enten bliver de planlagt af dig eller andre eller bliver du tvunget til det som følge af andre livsbegivenheder.

Ønsker du at spise intuitivt, skal du holde øje med din sult, smag, mæthed og generel tilstand. Det kan være svært, men i mine nye indlæg vil du lære, hvordan du gør det!

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